Blog
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What does respect actually mean? The word is used where „pampering” would fit better. The way you treat others reveals the price you put on yourself.
Respect
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Why doesn’t pleasure feel like the first time anymore? The joys you receive fade in memory; the ones you made for someone else stay almost intact.
Pleasure
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Why can’t we find the matching pair anymore? On the glove that means something only when worn, on curiosity going out, and on unpaired gloves.
I lost the glove
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How can you be grateful when you have none of the things that count? No family, divorced, no partner — and still glad of life and of the whole road.
I realized that I am Grateful
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Why do people want to seem more than they are? On the cardboard man with muscles, the comfort zone, and those who went back to school after 30.
How it would be if I were
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Why do I feel used in my relationships? On people who look for you only when they need something, and on what it means to receive enough from someone.
Mercantilism
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Why do I feel the need to show my importance? On clothes worn as armour, on status, and why a person’s value is not visible from three steps away.
The need to underline one’s importance
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Why do I always need to be right? On the pride that passes for self-respect, and on the contest of „my right is bigger than your right”.
The convenient illusion of the Ego (and of the confusion around self-respect)
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Why do I know joy but not happiness? On relationships held together by volunteering, on assumed loneliness, and on what naturalness actually means.
Thoughts on human relationships and their naturalness (vs. their toxicity)